The best last-minute gifts for mum on Mother's Day

Mother’s Day is around the corner – in fact, it is this Sunday (May 12, 2019). Too often, many supportive family or partners forget and leave present buying to the last minute. Rachael Scharrer, divorce and relationship expert and strategist, offers some of the best last-minute gift ideas for mum on Mother’s Day.

If you subscribe to the “if it wasn’t for the last minute then nothing would get done” mantra, then you had better get thinking about what your special mum likes and not what you think she needs (or worse, what the house needs.) Do not buy a mug or anything for the house. Don’t even think about buying a vacuum, platter, mug, bread maker. Mother’s Day gifts are supposed to be for her (the mother) and her alone.

You could rush out and buy the traditional Mother’s Day gifts like flowers and a book or chocolates and pyjamas … If this sounds like you, then yes, you could buy these items and the Mum will be happy. Other affordable and fast options for you to consider as a Mother’s Day gift include

  1. Make a card and add very thoughtful words
  2. Massage/facial
  3. Manicure/pedicure
  4. Create a lolly jar
  5. Have a picnic
  6. Clean the house and have it sparkle for her
  7. Make her dinner or breakfast in bed
  8. Give her child-free time to do what she would like to do
  9. A voucher to purchase new underwear or clothes
  10. Candles or crystals
  11. Bath bombs or essential oils
  12. Homemade book of vouchers for services from the family to be redeemed on demand – like cleaning, massage, dinner out – get creative and have some fun!

Mothers sacrifice so much for their families on a daily basis. When I was younger, I would observe my mother serving herself last – she would give herself the remaining portion (more often smaller) to ensure that the family was fed sufficiently first. As a parent myself, I can appreciate what she did, why she did it and I often catch myself doing the same thing with my family!

Too often, when you have children yourself, you finally appreciate the small acts that your mother did selflessly for you – And your mother has had to wait until you stumble upon this realisation to say thanks with a full heart!

While it is wonderful to have a dinner out, brunch together or give/receive a lavish gift, it is important to remember that it is in the quieter moments of life (and on Mother’s Day) that the connections with our loved-ones and memories are made. Sunday (Mother’s Day) is a wonderful opportunity for you to say “I see what you do for everyone and I thank you for all have you have done.”

Disclaimer

This is general advice only and is not provided as legal, medical, financial or other professional advice.